Intelligent Intoxication

Holding Patterns, Limbo, and Indecisions

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When we are in indecision, we are in limbo between staying on the “dock” and climbing into the “boat”. Decide to assume a holding pattern where you are OR decide to go all in for the new stage, chapter, or project. 
 
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How I Help My Clients Stop People-Pleasing

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Welcome to the Intelligent Intoxication podcast - where I’ll get you smashed on success without the buzzkill of burnout. 
 
I simply and efficiently help my clients stop people-pleasing by:
 
Saying NO
Ditching “good” 
Embracing their inherent worth
Handling disappointment when they’re incapable of or unwilling to meet the expectations of others
Creating and communicating boundaries
 
I can help you too, my friend. 
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If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me. 
 
I help my male and female clients create success professionally AND personally - it all starts with a complimentary happy hour call: www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri
You can find me at: www.terribradway.com
You can find me at: www.terribradway.com
 
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Instead of People-Pleasing

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Welcome to the Intelligent Intoxication podcast - where I’ll get you smashed on success without the buzzkill of burnout. 
When you are tempted to people-please, try this instead…
Buy yourself the time and space to get clear on what you really think, feel, or want by saying:
Nothing. Or, utter a simple, yet noncommittal “hmmm”.
”That’s interesting.”
“I’ll need to think about that, and then I’ll circle back.”
And, then, take the time to really get clear on what is in INTEGRITY for you.
And, ask yourself these questions:
Am I helping with no attachment to what they think or feel about me?
Am I doing something at my own expense?
If the other person refuses to approve of me, would I still say YES?
Am I trying to earn my worth or gain approval?
Am I afraid of the reaction my NO might bring?
 
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If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me. 
 
I help my male and female clients create success professionally AND personally - it all starts with a complimentary happy hour call: www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri
 
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Puppets, Pinocchio, and People-Pleasing

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Welcome to the Intelligent Intoxication podcast - where I’ll get you smashed on success without the buzzkill of burnout. 
 
Pinocchio had to earn his “realness” - you don’t. 
When you people-pleasing, you are offering yourself as someone else’s puppet. 
 
Here’s the real deal: emotionally mature people don’t want to be people-pleased by you.  
 
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If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me. 
 
I help my male and female clients create success professionally AND personally - it all starts with a complimentary happy hour call: www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri
 
You can find me at: www.terribradway.com
 
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The Three-Ring People-Pleasing Circus

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Welcome to the Intelligent Intoxication podcast - where I’ll get you smashed on success without the buzzkill of burnout. 
 
When you are in the “people-pleasing habit”, what are you thinking?
“If I say NO, he/she won’t like me.”
“I want him/her to think that I’m a good friend, daughter, person, worker, etc.”
“I don’t want to be rejected or excluded.”
“I have to earn my worth by pleasing others.”
“I can’t disappoint them or let them down.”
What are you feeling when you rush to please?
Anxious?
Inadequate?
Unworthy?
Grasp-y?
Ignored?
Invisible?
Desperate?
Afraid?
What are you actually DOING?
Do you…
say YES regardless of whether or not you want to?
lie about what you really believe or feel?
pretend to agree with others when you really don’t?
sacrifice your own needs to meet the needs of others?
hide parts of the “real you” in order to be palatable to others?
“like” posts you think are total crap?
walk on eggshells?
avoid conflict or confrontation?
take responsibility for the feelings of others?
 
When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 
 
If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me. 
 
I help my male and female clients create success professionally AND personally - it all starts with a complimentary happy hour call: www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri
 
You can find me at: www.terribradway.com
 
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The Cost of People Pleasing

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Welcome to the Intelligent Intoxication podcast - where I’ll get you smashed on success without the buzzkill of burnout. 
 
People-pleasing is COSTING YOU your:
 
Authenticity
Empowerment
Integrity
Relationships
 
You deserve so much more… 
 
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If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me. 
 
I help my male and female clients create success professionally AND personally - it all starts with a complimentary happy hour call: www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri
 
You can find me at: www.terribradway.com
 
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The Benefits of People-Pleasing

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We stay stuck in habits that fail to serve us long-term because of the immediate, yet temporary benefits we get. What BENEFITS do you get from people-pleasing?
Do you get to feel good about yourself?
Do you get to feel approved of?
Do you get to avoid feeling rejected, ashamed, embarrassed, inadequate, abandoned, or something equally crappy?
Do you get to be included?
Do you get validated?
Do you earn the “good girl” or “great guy” title?
Do you get to feel superior to others who are better at saying NO?
Do you get to be pleasing?
Do you feel safe?
 
When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 
 
If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me. 
 
I help my male and female clients create success professionally AND personally - it all starts with a complimentary happy hour call: www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri
 
You can find me at: www.terribradway.com
 
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The Truth About People Pleasing

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Welcome to the Intelligent Intoxication podcast - where I’ll get you smashed on success without the buzzkill of burnout. 
 
If you are in the people-pleasing habit, you are choosing to lie, control, and manipulate others in order to get them to like and approve of you. Or, you are telling people what you think they want to hear, or doing things for people in order to control how they think and feel about you. People-pleasing is just a habit, my friend. Let’s shift it. 
 
When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 
 
If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me. 
 
I help my male and female clients create success professionally AND personally - it all starts with a complimentary happy hour call: www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri
 
You can find me at: www.terribradway.com
 
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How I Help Clients Decide to Stay or Leave

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Welcome to the Intelligent Intoxication podcast - where I’ll get you smashed on success without the buzzkill of burnout. 
 
If you are trying to decide whether to STAY in or LEAVE your current professional position, I can help and guide you through the decision-making process. You will decide to STAY or LEAVE AND you’ll like your reasons. 
 
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If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me. 
 
I help my male and female clients create success professionally AND personally - it all starts with a complimentary happy hour call: www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri
 
You can find me at: www.terribradway.com
 
Follow me on Instagram: @terribradway
 
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Fear and Hope

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Welcome to the Intelligent Intoxication podcast - where I’ll get you smashed on success without the buzzkill of burnout. 
 
Try out Kate Swobota’s exercise for uncovering your real fears and hopes:
 
Write down:
“If I STAY, I’m afraid that… “
 
Then try:
“If I STAY, I hope that… “
 
Then:
“If I LEAVE, I’m afraid that… “
 
Finally: 
“If I LEAVE, I hope that… “
 
When it comes to podcasting, the best way to “tip the bartender” is by heading over to Apple Podcasts and leaving a 5-star review. This helps me imbibe other listeners with the secret sauce of emotional intelligence. And, make sure to “order another round”  by hitting SUBSCRIBE. 
If you’re thirsty for more than this daily shot and ready to intoxicate the hell out of your personal and professional life, I’d love to invite you to coach one-on-one with me. 
 
I help my male and female clients create success professionally AND personally - it all starts with a complimentary happy hour call: www.terribradway.com/work-with-terri
You can find me at: www.terribradway.com
 
Follow me on Instagram: @terribradway
 
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