
Tuesday Aug 02, 2022
How You May Be Playing the Victim
The “Drama Triangle” is a model created by Dr. Stephen Karpman used to describe the ROLES we unconsciously play in our relationships. We may PLAY THE PART of a:
- VICTIM
- RESCUER
- PERSECUTOR
If you are in the habit of “playing the Victim”, you might be:
- "super-sensitive"
- need "kid-glove" treatment
- seeking attention
- refusing to take accountability or responsibility
- clinging to a rescuer for your "unsolvable problem"
- resisting helping yourself
- blaming circumstances or others
- complaining constantly
- refusing to make decisions/solve problems
- avoiding professional help
- dependent on others
- always overwhelmed and unable to manage
- full of self-pity
- recruiting an audience for your drama
- Ignoring your own mistakes/faults
What BENEFITS do you get from “playing the Victim” in your relationships?
What is “playing the Victim” costing you?
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